The Ins and Outs of Stress Management
The bills will continue to pour in. The prices will go on rising. The
recession will continue and the job market will continue to be anemic
depending on if America can get is fiscal house in order. This can and does
affect your life, your job, and your children's future, if you have any,
for example. But do not expect your stresses to vanish. Thankfully, you have
it within your power to keep a firm grip on your stress and ensure that it
does not undermine with your life and equilibrium.
Knowledge is Power
Here are some effective stress management techniques or critical information
that will help you combat the stress menace in your life:
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Identify the stressors in your life. Unknown too many of
us, the root of most of our stresses lie within ourselves-in our habits,
behaviors, and thought processes. For instance, if you do not learn how to
say "No," work will continue to be sent your way. If you do not
control your habit of flying off the handle at the slightest, relationships
will continue to be strained. And if you do not break your habit of worrying
over the small things or trying to take control of everything and everyone
in your life, you will always be stressed out.
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Evaluate your coping mechanisms. Some stress-busting
methods may work in the short run but actually end up causing severe
physical and emotional damage in the long run. Take a close look at yourself
and find out if you are prone to lapsing into these dangerous means of
coping with stress-smoking and/or drinking excessively, popping in pills or
taking drugs, binge eating or starving yourself, shutting out all human
contact and/or spending too many mindless hours in front of the television
or computer, immersing yourself in too much work to escape responsibilities
or procrastinating on critical tasks, and/or venting your anger and
frustration on others. Shun these debilitating habits and instead learn how
to cope in a healthy manner.
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Learn how to avoid unnecessary stress. This is the first
step of taking control of your life. Be prepared to say "No."
Accept that it is perfectly okay in wanting to avoid certain people and
going ahead with it. Find ways around doing non-critical tasks that stress
you out, like switching to online shopping if store queues bother you or
consider online shopping if you do not want to deal with finding a parking
space or confronting freeway traffic. And finally, sort out your priorities,
because some tasks can always be put off until the next day.
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Try and alter a stressful situation. Most stressful
situations are not beyond your control if only you convey to these other
people that are attributable to your stress in regards to how you are
feeling. You need to be a little more assertive and demand that you be
allowed more time and space. And then work hard to manage your time in the
most effective manner. Most of the time, a compromising attitude and not
trying to be perfect also help counter stress admirably.
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Adapt to the stressor. If the above two ploys-trying to
avoid or altering a stressful situation-do not work out, gracefully accept
that some things are beyond your control. Adopt a positive attitude, lower
your expectations a bit, and re-orient your perspective to find the silver
lining in the cloud. Whether you see a glass as half-empty or half-full will
ultimately determine how well you adapt to the stressor.
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Play. Remember those wise words. All work and no play made
Jack a dull boy which will only contribute to your stress. Take time out to
have fun, indulge in activities you love most, and reach out and connect to
the people you cherish. There is not any greater stress-buster than play.
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Follow a healthy lifestyle. There are tons of scientific
studies to prove that regular exercise, a healthy diet, and a solid
night's sleep equip your body and mind to cope with stress.
Too Much to Cope With
The above-mentioned stress management techniques, if practiced often and
diligently, will yield results. Also, consider seeking medical help for your
stress if it is severe or acute because stress can be a silent killer!
Dr. Vernon Williams discusses Adrenal Stress and Fatigue
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